At The Home Team we believe that it is extremely important to be alongside someone with dementia, whatever their symptoms, not to challenge them or to tell them that they have repeated themselves, but to find a way to make them feel relaxed and comfortable. If someone is being aggressive we understand the approaches that can deescalate a situation, such as changing the subject or moving on to another activity. Some of our clients who are no longer able to manage simple day-to-day tasks love to sing or recite verses or limericks that they remember from their childhood, teens or twenties. Once our dementia care Norwich team knows this they can encourage a song or a recital, which brings a lot of pleasure to those clients and further cements the carer-client relationship.
Dementia can be extremely upsetting for a partner, other family members and friends who see their loved one become increasingly affected by this disease. For those living with someone with dementia, it can be extremely challenging and exhausting, particularly when a behavioural change might mean that the person with dementia needs to be regularly attended to. That person might be up a lot in the night, they might need to be helped to clean and change after a toileting accident and they might wish to do something that could be deemed to be a danger to themselves.
We recognise the importance of providing Dementia Care support to the partner who has become the main carer for their partner who has dementia, to listen, advise and provide practical support. We will always ensure that we are in regular supportive contact with the partner who has become their partner’s carer, not only through The Home Team carer who is in attendance but also through our management team, making regular contact by phone and in person.